--- /opt/ecos/ecos-2.0/packages/net/bsd_tcpip/v2_0/src/sys/kern/uipc_socket.c	2003-02-12 10:29:52.000000000 -0500
+++ ./uipc_socket.c	2007-08-28 16:11:56.000000000 -0400
@@ -242,6 +246,11 @@
 			TAILQ_REMOVE(&head->so_incomp, so, so_list);
 			head->so_incqlen--;
 		} else if (so->so_state & SS_COMP) {
+			 if((so->so_error == ECONNRESET) ||
+				 (so->so_error == ECONNREFUSED)){ // forced drop if flagged
+				  TAILQ_REMOVE(&head->so_comp, so, so_list);
+				  head->so_qlen--;
+			 } else {
 			/*
 			 * We must not decommission a socket that's
 			 * on the accept(2) queue.  If we do, then
@@ -249,11 +258,13 @@
 			 * that the listening socket was ready.
 			 */
 			return;
+			 }
 		} else {
 			panic("sofree: not queued");
 		}
 		head->so_qlen--;
 		so->so_state &= ~SS_INCOMP;
+		so->so_state &= ~SS_COMP;
 		so->so_head = NULL;
 	}
 	sbrelease(&so->so_snd, so);